were totally safe, right? It turned out we didnt even have any chemistry, he had a super weird penis, and most importantlyit really hurt my friend, even though we werent that close. We connected during a class bar crawl, when I decided, in my drunken brilliance, to talk him into swimming in the freezing, dirty harbor with.
So take a cue from these eight women who bravely relivedand laughed aboutsome of their most awkward, embarrassing, and hilarious hookup moments. Anne, 28, New York City. Watch: How Much Sex Should You Be Having? To say I caused some damage that night is a serious understatement. Stylecaster/Getty Images, lets be realits hard to make it past age 21 without a #regrettable or #rockbottom hookup experience, or five. But it helps to recognize the powerful forces that may be at work when you're hitting a new level of intimacybecause it can save you A LOT of heartbreak/brain space down the road.
All of the participants were heavy drinkers, many of whom frequented or worked in bars, nightclubs, and restaurants. It's natural to have some sort of vague expectations for your partner post-hookup, even if you *thought* you were cool with a casual make-out sesh or a FWB situation. Instead of beating yourself up about your decisions, though, use this situation to recognize what will make you feel 100 emotionally and physically safe in the future. Thanks for that, dude. Jake and Josie Get Drunk and Hook Up: An Exploration of Mutual Intoxication and Sexual Assault. Hopefully hooking up with that person at that time was *your* decision and it feels cool/adult/powerful to be the boss of you!